Proverbs 20:24 says "A man's steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way?"
I have to tell you I don't understand my life. Because there is another party, God, is directing my steps. I am willing to have God direct my steps. Although it's a mysterious process, the will of God is done.
We are human and He is God. He is considering how is He going to accomplish His will with us? What is the best way? What is the best time?
God has a will. God has a way to carry out His will. God has a timetable. How will this work out? What needs happen to me first? What experience do we need to have?
God has a will for which everything is created. We exist, and we exist as a particular kind of human being in space and time, according to God's will.
Second Timothy 1:9 refers to God who has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose in grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the time of the ages. God saved us and called us according to His own purpose. =)